Notes from a Traveling Childhood:
Reading for Internationally Mobile Parents and Children
Edited by Karen Curnow McCluskey
Reviewed by Michael Ann Dean
They say you can't tell a book by its cover and I would
add, "You can't always tell a book by its title. "This battle-weary
FS spouse and parent of two of those "internationally mobile"
children assumed that this book was merely one more collection of musings
by former expatriate children. I didn't think it could tell me much.
But I was wrong.
Yes, there is a section, "Portraits of the Travelers," that
contains writings by current and former expatriate children. I especially
liked the poignant title piece by Sara Mansfield Taber longing for her
missing American home, Ursula Lindsey's nostalgia for Rome, and Anders
Lundahl's practical advice about fitting in. What interesting and insightful
children this lifestyle produces! But it was the first part of the book,
"The Overview," that was most enlightening. I found myself
thinking, "I wish I'd known that," or "I never thought
about it that way" while reading the article by the editor, "The
Expatriate Parent: Issues and Options for Internationally Mobile Parents."
I had always assumed that living successfully in an overseas environment
had meant primarily dealing with another culture. Ms. McCluskey points
out, however, that many other factors, including the changing rank of
the employee, employment issues for the spouse, the length of the tour
of duty (the transients, the short-termers, and those in it for the
long haul), and the nature of the "business" (diplomatic,
military, missionary or private business) play important and sometimes
overriding roles in the overseas experience for the whole family. This
section also contains common sense advice about helping children adjust
to this lifestyleas well as some wonderful advice from kids to
kids. ("Be careful because your parents go crazy...When we get
ready to pack out, my mom gets meaner than a snake. I'm prepared for
that.")
"Traveling Childhood" should definitely be part of the resource
library of anyone attached to internationally mobile children.
Note: This book is published by the Foreign Service Youth Foundation,
a private, non-profit organization, founded in 1989 to provide information,
advocacy, and outreach programs for the internationally mobile youth
of all U.S. foreign affairs agencies. FSYF offers social and educational
programs, publications and videos, internships, and community service
awards to youth and their parents in the Washington, DC area as well
as at foreign posts abroad. To order the book, send $10.50, plus $3.00
for APO/pouch postage ($7.00 for international postage)to
Michael Ann Dean is a former CLO, former staff member in FLO, and
current battler against ovarian cancer.
© 1994 ISBN: 0965853810 $5.95
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